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第壹篇
Marriage , the grave or shrine of love?
Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: finding the right
person and being the right person".Do we really know the actual definition of
a successful marriage? If not than lets look for it and see what conclusion we
can draw.We often say that someone somewhere is made for you and the day
you come across that person you feel that that he or she is the one you have been
waiting for.But later we see that due to lack of understanding and mental
compatibility they move apart. So how can we say that they were the perfect match
since they didnt gave any effort to understand each other.
So its important you know your partner. There are people who get physically attracted and fall for each other and eventually end up getting married.
But later on when they see their wavelength not matching they easily get separated
without a second thought. In todays generation we see these incidents more
compare to earlier generation. And this is more due to the changing social
scenario. With so many things to divert your attention you really dont know
what to do.
第二篇
Mutual understanding is crital to the sucsess of marriage. As a saying goes:"Marriage is the grave for love.'To a certain extent, it has some point in it, because love in most case is romantic and the lover only see the bright side of his or her counterpart,but the marriage invovles more vulgar things. During the daily life, you not only discover his or her bright side,you may also be reluctant to find sometimes he or she offensive to you. Therefore, mutual understanding is pretty important to maintain a good marriage. Without it, the couples will only complain each other when confronted with conflicts between them. As time goes by and the tention exists, more often than not, the marriage will eventually fall collapsed. So the most and foremost thing that a couple should keep in mind is that the precious love that bind them together. If not for that, how could they get to know and fall in with each other?
One must learn to treasure what one has had.
第三篇。小故事
I will be married in October this year.”when I announced this news to my sisters,they said:"oh,really?Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Oh my god,of course,I feel so bad to hear that.They don't give me blessings but intimidation? Are they my sisters? I confused for a period of time about this.and have strong confidence of my marriage.Time past,after two years marriage life,i feel that many unhappy things arround us , may be is not so big things,but is enough to make me think about the questions"Do you afraid marriage is the tomb of love?"Now,I can give everyone the answer.Yes,marriage is really the tomb of love,but it just like the story of"Besieged City".People in the city want to go outside.People outside want to go into the city.It is really very helplessness.these days, I feel very unhappy,but no one can help me ,I just don't want to back home,but...I want to see my baby....what can i do ,oh god,really trouble.
第四篇。詩歌。英漢對照
Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master?
And he answered saying:
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness.
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fil each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,but let each one of you be alone.
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts ,but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.
婚姻（紀伯倫《先知》）
艾爾米特再度開口，說道：請您和我們談談有關婚姻的事，好嗎？
於是，他答道，
妳們壹同出生，也將長相廝守。
當死神之翼揮散了妳們的生命時，妳們仍將同在。
即使在上帝靜默的記憶裏，妳們也將永遠地相守。
但是請在妳們彼此相依的世界中保留些許空間，
好讓天堂之風在妳們之間舞蹈。
彼此相愛，但不要讓愛成為捆縛；
愛是遼闊起伏的海洋，使妳們的靈魂隔岸相望。
應該註滿彼此的杯，而不是只從壹杯中啜飲。
要將自己的面包給對方，而不是享用同壹份。
兩人壹同歌唱、舞蹈，同享歡愉，但仍各自保有自我，
就像琴上的弦雖為同壹旋律而振動，彼此間仍是各自獨立。
應獻出妳們的心，但絕非要妳們緊握住對方的心不放，
因為只有生命的手才能握緊妳們的心。
應壹同站立，但不要過近；
因為廊柱分立才能撐起廟宇。
橡樹和柏樹斷然無法在彼此的蔭下成長。
最後壹篇。長文。
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